Rafiki

So how's that free time thing treating you? Bored? Miss the company? Reconnect with all those facebook friends! We are livin' in the age where it doesn't matter if you haven't spoken to someone in years, you have them on facebook! Honestly though this may be the time you start to do your strutting as you need to feel like tiger in prime. Whatever that means, you really need to feel powerful and sexy right now for self esteem purposes. And if you aren't normally a flirt or haven't really looked into it as you were too tied up with someone, take the time to observe how powerful women can be. I mean seriously, we can control the penis without touching it!!! We can wink and hello! I was eating cereal once and my man popped a boner so have some confidence girl in the fact that you may not be experienced but even the most subtle moves give you power.

About this confidence bit. It is the most noticeable quality you have and if you really want to get any where in life, you really have to love yourself, every last bit of it. I could go on about how it doesn't matter what size you are blah blah blah but confidence is more than body image. You need to like the girl in you who wears head bands and studded collars and reads 500 books a year. This is also where that hobby bit comes in. If you have something you are good at, it gives you something to show off and prove and talk about. Also having a good close knit group of friends helps as we are constantly encouraging each other (and secretly thinking we are better than each other).

Back to strutting. Get dressed up and go shopping. I mean put on the make up, mini skirt and heels this is going to be an epic trip to Safeway! I know what you're thinking, “Who wears that to Safeway? I make fun of those girls who feel they need to dress up like that all the time!” Pfffft, this isn't all the time, this is because you feel like it and want some attention even if it's non verbal and from everyone who sees you. Plus no matter what that girl's boyfriend looks like you caught his attention. Now ladies don't freak out, this guy isn't thinking of cheating on his girl friend (at least we hope not but we don't really care either way), he just noticed a woman that he otherwise would not have turned his gaze for necessarily. It's like being the baboon with the bluest ass, everyone looks and admires.